Successful people are different than others, because, they behave differently. This different behaviour contributes a lot to their success. Here are some of common behaviour of successful people or it would not be wrong if we call it as Key Performance Indicators (KPI’s) of being successful in their daily life. The do’s and don’ts of successful people are following;
Do’s of Successful People:
Many of behavioral research studies indicate towards common behavior of successful people, which are actually key to success. These common behaviors are found in almost all successful people.
The first key performance indicator of successful people is “positivity”, which make them different than other people. They perceive the things positively and remain positive in looking at towards others. Because they know well that if they perceive the world negatively, then they can’t look at the positive size of the picture.
The successful people accept changes, because they have positive perception towards things, situation and people. That’s why, they are not trouble makers. They try to adjust themselves with new situations, systems and people. Their acceptance behaviour also contributes to their learning and exposure about new things, systems and people.
The successful people have strong control of their emotions. Their way of emotional behaviour is different than that of others. For example, they don’t get emotional too early or don’t make decisions in emotional condition. They know very well how to control their emotions and use their positively.
The successful people are seeming to be highly organized and structured, because they have very clear goals in their minds and they remain focused towards their goals. They know what they are going to do and what they would get out of it. They don’t want to waste time in complexities and confusions, but to be clear and straight with goals.
Self-dependent and Confident:
The successful people are known as decision makers, because they are independent and confident. When they are going to make any decision, they also take full responsibility of results, even it is good or bad.
The “fear of losing” is the key factor, which separates the successful people from unsuccessful people. The successful people, at first, don’t afraid of losing and if they lose, they don’t accept it and keep doing again and again until they get success.
Along with the persistency, the successful people are known as really hardworking. They believe in earning success with their hard work that’s why they don’t expect results in the short term, but do the hard work for long term results.
The successful people always ready to learn, regardless it is cognitive learning, self-learning or social learning. Even they learn from their mistakes and avoid repeating same mistakes.
Don’ts of Successful People:
On opposite of do’s, there are some common behaviour regarding don’t attributes, which are not performed by successful people.
• They don’t waste time in convincing others, as they are independent.
• They don’t underestimate themselves, as they are confident.
• They don’t get jealous with other’s success, as they celebrate it.
• They don’t get afraid of being alone, as they think and analyze while being alone.
• They don’t live in the past, as they live in present and think about the future.
• They don’t want to control everything, as they go with their goals only.
• They don’t get afraid of new things or new people, as they find opportunity from it.
• They don’t even apologize themselves, as they believe in themselves.